Many men who suffer from premature ejaculation have a hard time
believing there is a way to control their arousal. They feel that they
are completely out of control of their bodies, unable to stop the
inevitable. There is a way to overcome the loss of control however, and
it lies in learning what is going on during arousal and how to regain
composure over your body. This is covered in more depth in the Ejaculation Trainer.
Problems with controlling arousal often have their roots in
adolescence. During our younger years intercourse and masturbation have
to be rushed, usually for fear of getting caught. Over time this will
actually train the body to climax as soon as possible regardless of the
situation. While this may have proved useful in younger years, it
becomes an issue of frustration and embarrassment later on in life. To
be able to get past these problems, men need to get their arousal back
under control and re-train their body to have a longer ejaculatory
threshold.
Some men find that the use of alcohol or prescription medications
allows them to last longer, but this is just a short-term solution that
masks what the real problem is. The body will also begin to build up a
tolerance, making them less effective over time. Then when you quit
using them, the problem is even worse than before. It should also be
noted that it’s not a good idea in any way to get drunk each time before
you have sex. Alcohol consumption should be kept at a minimum. There
are also over the counter drugs, creams, and condoms that claim to help
men control their arousal and prevent premature ejaculation. While any
of these options may prove to be an effective quick fix to premature
ejaculation, they aren’t a real solution, they just mask the problem. A
man will become dependant on this outside help, when really all he needs
to do is rely on himself.
Since the body has been conditioned to climax as quickly as possible,
the long-term solution to completely alleviating premature ejaculation
is to recondition the body to prolong climax. Often times, when a man is
suffering from premature ejaculation, he feels like he is out of
control of his body, that he is just a victim to his arousal. That
doesn’t have to be the case however. With some basic training and
learning some important knowledge, a man can effectively understand how
his body responds to arousal, and with this knowledge he will learn to
control himself. Learning arousal control allows the man to control
himself from the very beginning of a sexual situation. A knowledge of
certain techniques is also crucial for those moments where a man can
feel himself starting to lose control..
There are a few different programs available for men who want to get
to the core of their premature ejaculation. These programs are most
effective when they teach a man a number of different ways to understand
and control his arousal. Muscle control as well as mental control
should be covered. The emergency tactics for those close call situations
also should be part of the training program. A well-rounded ejaculation
control program will teach men what they need to know so they are no
longer a victim to their arousal.
For a complete explanation on how to control arousal and permanently end premature ejaculation, try the Ejaculation Trainer. It’s the most effective ejaculation control program available
